Thoughts of a Man Called Aim

Being a judgmental person made me lose a lot of opportunities I could have get. Seeing someone else's achievement, judging the person because they just can't finish their work on time, etc.  You know too much psychology when you can't get mad because you understand why everyone's reasons for doing everything.      I was a very judgmental person. I would talk sh*t to anyone that I feel they deserve what I'm about to say. Even if they would hate me in the end. I didn't care about one's feeling towards my actions. One day I realize I've made so much mistakes by letting them know what I think about them because you simply just can't say what you think about them directly. People don't need your suggestions or input unless they asked you for it and even then people will more likely going to let it pass. I realize that by telling them what to do I would just waste my energy and time which I can invest in something else instead of being a judgmental pe...

Childhood celebbbrity crrrushhh now I'll give you time to remember all of them! That one time you watch a show, or maybe you came to their concert, or in the movie they were in, everything!      I suddenly remember that I was so in love with the girl in Bridge to Terabithia. Yup, the name is AnnaSophia Robb. I'll always remember the name. It was on holiday and well you know all the holiday movie is being played on TV and we were just watching it. Then this movie came. One thing that got my mind is that where the F did she go??? I was so young I didn't know what to think or what could be the scenario behind it and really the movie just left me with confusion. I learn about the tragedy when I hit teenage years when internet was already a common thing and accessible here where I live. That broke my heart instantly. But well life is always like that. Words that I remember from a scene in The Amazing World of Gumball (yes, you heard it right, GUMBALL), When life gives you lem...

While I was listening to one of Rich Brian's song "History" I heard about self control . Background story about the song is it's about a guy that met her ex and he couldn't move on. One day they both were in the same place, in a party to be exact. The girl's friends warned her about him and that she should stay away from him now that they have broken up. Then the guy this bar came, You're so good at self control, but, maybe now it's time for change.      That bar made me think that hmm if only I have that kind of power, just imagine you can limit the time you spend on your daily activities. This will soon lead you to be able to avoid instant gratification , but that will be on another discussion. Having the power to wait for instant gratification just a little bit longer for something greater in the long run is something that you can achieve if you do it daily. It's gotta be your habit . You gotta live with it, breath with it, etc.      For me, wel...