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Judgmental

Being a judgmental person made me lose a lot of opportunities I could have get. Seeing someone else's achievement, judging the person because they just can't finish their work on time, etc. 

You know too much psychology when you can't get mad because you understand why everyone's reasons for doing everything.

    I was a very judgmental person. I would talk sh*t to anyone that I feel they deserve what I'm about to say. Even if they would hate me in the end. I didn't care about one's feeling towards my actions. One day I realize I've made so much mistakes by letting them know what I think about them because you simply just can't say what you think about them directly. People don't need your suggestions or input unless they asked you for it and even then people will more likely going to let it pass. I realize that by telling them what to do I would just waste my energy and time which I can invest in something else instead of being a judgmental person. Oh, how life treats us good.

    Whether you feel you are a judgmental person or no, you may want to stop telling people what they can do to their life because they must have a reason behind what they are doing even if it's not a good reason. That's a fact and you will never know unless you are very close to them, even then still it's not a good move. Stay curious but don't overdo it by judging people.

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